The first time we spoke about it there were no consequences. I just said, "you are going to go into school tomorrow and you are going to..."

That was at the beginning of Jan. and lasted 10 days.

A week ago I said that if she didn't cut off contact, that I'd be out. We had a heat-to-heart and she said that she's not able to feel in love with anyone right now. She was approved for an apt. but seems like she's back home now (hasn't brought it up in last 2 days, and gave me a hug for the first time in a long while when she came back.)

So right now the equilibrium seems to be no calls, no texts, no emails, but she responds to his posts on facebook.

I'm just looking for ways to make her realize that he's the short-fat-integrity-lacking dips**t that he is.

Should I write on her facebook page in her conversations with him to bring him down a peg?

Or, should I just ignore it, like it doesn't bother me.


Together since Feb. 2003
Maried since July 2007
Bomb occured early Dec. 2008
She's approved for a lease mid Feb. 2009
(deciding on if to take it or not)