Hi Pearl! Amazingly, I was able to sleep really well last night-without any help. I think I'm in a state of exhaustion! \:\) Wearing earplugs helps. It's like sleeping in a little cocoon.

Originally Posted By: pearlharbr

IMHO, a one night stand is WAY different than an ongoing EA or PA.

You know, I totally agree with you, but as the "instigator," I've never felt comfortable saying that. Obviously it was indredibly damaging to our relationship, and I'm not trying to make light of it, but I agree that a one night stand is different. It happened in a different country (on a different continent) for a night and there was no sneaking around or deceiving for an extended period of time. I told my H the night I got back from the trip.

Ah well. Either way, it's over now and I've just got to live with the consequences of my actions. OR was more complicated than that - this wasn't the only factor that led to where we are now...

Hope you had a good night too.


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Me - 29
H - 29
M - 6 months
T - 8 years
ILYBNILWY - 1/24/09
Recovery begins 3/1/09