Keeping count of the days... I don't know. I think it probably isn't a good thing, because you should be focused on yourself more than what you're not getting. I'm not a good one to comment on this, but I feel for you, Mike.
It might not take as long as you think for her to trust that you aren't just looking for some action. As long as you are consistent and transparent (outward, verbal, honest) about what you are after in each moment.
