I know this seems a hard question, but do you think your H has feelings for you, or do you think he is just scared that you will go for him financially?
Do you think he has strong feelings for anyone apart from himself? Is there anyone he would put before himself? Was there ever a time when you felt he put others first?
I am just interested to know if he has changed.
Also, I should ask you the opposite - it is very easy to see the negatives in our wayward S's; what are the things that make you love him? what is it about him that keeps you going?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
