So what would your advice be if you you've exposed it, stated that there should be no contact whatsoever, she did what you asked for 10 days and then started contacting again? The problem is that some contact is unavoidable since they work at school together and share a classroom, but she's over the line by following up on his contact outside the classroom.


Together since Feb. 2003
Maried since July 2007
Bomb occured early Dec. 2008
She's approved for a lease mid Feb. 2009
(deciding on if to take it or not)