Truth darts are meant to penetrate the thickest of the fog -- when the affair is active. People caught up in adultery can't be "taught," but you can get short "truth darts" in sometimes. I tried to use them 2-3x per week or so.
Puppy
As an aside, I might have to hold off on any communication at all considering the legal issue. Once the custody/support order is in place, I might consider it. But I'm trying to reach a settlement, work through divorce, and get out for my daughter's sake.
Wish I'd had the evidence prior to her filing. I had the suspicions, and hindsight being 20/20 there are lots of things that should have clued me in.
But I chose to trust. Chose to keep myself blind. The person I married and fell in love with is m.i.a. right now. The person she is at the moment is completely different than anything I've ever seen from her. Lies, deceit, vindictiveness, bitterness, treachery. Before she always had a smile on her face and talked about fun things kids at her daycare did. I miss the old her.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
