I don't mean to hog so much of your thread today Sage, but I wanted to get your opinion on something.

Considering the posts that I responded to today...WHY don't we see what it is we're doing, when we so clearly know when we've done it?

Why do we continue to fall into the same pitfalls when we're so obviously in-tune with our own mistakes and shortcomings in the DB process?

I KNOW what works for my H and I and I KNOW what doesn't work too..and yet it's like I have to freakin 'retrain' at some point almost every single day it seems.

I think that there's some sick part of me that's constantly trying to sabatoge what the other part of me is so desperately trying to heal. Does that make any sense to you, can you relate to that?
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