Currently I am in a holding pattern. I am about 20 days into a self-imposed "going dark" through February 28th.
At this point, I have the option of filing divorce, continuing to stay dark, waiting to "see". W has said she is pursuing dissolution a month an a half ago. I gave her information two weeks ago, and asked her for some information in return, and I have received nothing.
I am not going to do anything until March 1, but at this point, I have no idea what to do, so I'm basically going with the flow.
I worry that not filing in the face an A sets a bad example for my kids, enables W, etc, but just don't feel "right" about it.
