I was right in the middle of getting the divorce done with lawyers when the kids and I took summer vacation. I started the divorce in xmas 2007 and the kids and I took a vacation to Mexico. When I got back, there were divorce papers ready for me to hand to my W - she was pissed because her cake eating was coming to an end. I filed mainly because she was exposing the kids to her affair.
I too had the same fantasy of having some "ring sparring time" with my X's OM (who is 68). I also blame my X more for the affair than the OM. He even tried talking her into coming back to our marriage.
Be upbeat and happy during the next 2 weeks. Look on the bright side - she is not trying to take the kids away from you.
