No 2x4 from me. I think your email was good. You express yourself perfectly when you write to your W.
Remember what I said before about emailing ALL of your thoughts, though. It's one sided and you will always feel that way. She doesn't respond to your emails, she just hears them. It's a wall of hers. If she responds, she has to tell you her feelings. Opening up to you may be scary. She may say things that you may not like to hear, and you may then say you don't want to be with her anymore. She may say things you WANT to hear, but that causes her to be vunerable. Your wife does not like being vunerable. Walls.
