Quote: One thing that h has said again and again is that the timing of when I bring this stuff up, well, stinks...and he's right. It's often when we're out someplace (or just gotten back from being someplace), usually after we've had a "good time", often late at night and often at the start of the weekend....
I do this too, but now (as opposed to the past) I internalize it... But I feel like these "feelings" get to me more when I'm spending more time with my W (thus, while we're out and such). Weird. But just being around her brings up all of the sh!t. Like going out to watch her sing Karaoke when that's how she met OM. As such, Karaoke reminds me of her A...even though she did it well before OM. Thus, going out to have fun reminds me of past misdeeds. I guess it comes down to focusing on making new and memorable memories, right?
Quote: I think that the key for both of us is going to be trial and error
To be a bit philosophical, isn't it always...with everyone? I believe that's just life, Sage, and that's how we gain wisdom. Each little event will bring you closer to understanding each other.
Quote: So...despite the unsatisfactory nature of this weekend's conversation in terms on this "not happening again" I think we're going to be fine...it's just that it's gonna take small steps to get there instead of rolling out some giant blueprint.
