Thank you Kalni, I think your advice is spot on. I won't reject her out of spite, I will just be pleasant and tell her I'm busy and have something to do.
Sandi does have my back, as well as quite a few others on this forum (Spellfire, JD also come to mind as being frequent posters on my thread).
That book is fantastic, I wish I had it growing up - in fact it should be required reading for all men.
I've been reading some of my posts and I hope I don't come off as being spiteful or vindictive against my wife or women in general. I love women and I love my wife very much and I'm sure I'm becoming the man I've always wanted to be, it could be that I'm also becoming the man she always wanted me to be which is why she is more pleasant with me now than in the beginning of our separation.
Thank you for the great feedback and comments, I am going GREAT and I'll assume my life can only get better!
