TL absolutely you can find a 2nd love. This is my 2nd m, so it happened for me. Could I find a 3rd? He he he! Not at all looking, but one needs to open your mind to any and all possibilites if that is what you choose for your life.
Take care!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
Yes, you found your second love of your life and I am happy for you. I find it very hard though because I loved my H for over 30 years. It is just so difficult to get used to somebody else after having been together for more than half my life. I know I could be happy with somebody else for another 30 years but I have difficulties in letting go of my H and the thoughts of him.
Yesterday was also quite a nice day but nothing like Wednesday. I had to get some things done and also went shopping. By the time I finished the sky was overcast and I only went for a very short walk.
On second thoughts I decided not to offer the guy from Sunday to be friends since I might not have so much time for him if I really want to get to know somebody compatible. So I just wrote to him that I agreed with what he wrote and wished him good luck.
One of my GFs phone me yesterday and I told her about my Internet acquaintancies. She said that she loves to talk to me since my stories are so interesting - LOL.
"My sailor" sent me two photographs of himself by e-mail. He is slim and quite good looking but quite a bit younger than I. He asked me to send him a photo as well. I have never done this before but thought I could risk it. Just by chance I mentioned that I will go out to a certain place in the nearby town tonight to listen to music. He replied that he liked my pic and that he might join me at the place I will go to! He said that he liked that kind of music and dancing. I didn't expect that since he told me he would go to a skiing resort on Saturday. - As usual I have no expectations.
I found out today that tomorrow there will be good music and dancing in the same town and since this guy likes dancing I told him about it. I wonder if he will show up but I guess he will not.
I keep thinking it is Saturday today. It is starting to snow slightly again and I just hope the drive will not be full of snow in this evening when I have to drive.
On Sunday morning there is a jazz concert in another town near my sister's and if the streets will be clear I will join her. So there are quite a few things on this week-end and I am keeping my fingers crossed for the weather to be good.
I am still amazed how similar our sitchs are. Just imagine my H is in the same part of the world as yours and he even intended to visit the place where your H is! The only difference seems to be that mine did not marry OW.
I had quite a good week-end although "my date" did not show up as I expected. I have not heard from him either. He does not seem to be a big writer.
The music on Friday night was great. I also went out to a place with live music and dancing with my GF on Saturday evening. However, carnival is a big thing in this area and most people were dressed in costumes. They swamped the place and there was nobody who would dance with us. But I still enjoyed the music.
Today I met a GF for coffee at my favourite restaurant in the afternoon. I did not go to the jazz concert in the morning as the weather was not good enough. I also got angry this morning since there was hardly any snow but the snow plough still came by although the road was clear and put heaps of snow on my drive that I had no choice but to clear it.
I had to send my H an e-mail regarding a business matter; otherwise I would not have contacted him.
I forgot to mention that I am finally starting to pack my H's clothes away. Most of his things are still in the cupboards and so I am putting everything possible in the attic.
I just received a (nice) reply from H thanking me for helping him with the business matter. He also mentioned that he finds it hard to forgive me for taking my share of the property sale!
Today is a miserable day again and it was raining. Maybe it will clear up later.
TL I bet that was difficult packing up your h's things. My h still has a closet full, so if I had to pack that up it would make me sad. It would make me feel the end. Sorry that you have to go through this.
Glad your h was nice on e-mail, but here we go ago with the anger and unforgiveness in their hearts.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
I know, I remember packing up H's stuff...mmm not easy. There's still some stuff left..I guess it won't leave unless another man moves in...I don't mind...there is a part of H that will always belong here....
Take care and thanks for your post on my thread...I too ended up having a chuckle today, about the whole foolish incident !
xxxx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
I was surprised that packing up H's clothes was not as difficult as I thought. Somehow I still have the feeling that he will be back one day - oh well that will probably never happen. The rest of the things like souveniers and ornaments will have to stay where they are until H gets them, since I am running out of space.
I received an e-mail from "my guy" saying that he didn't have time to see me last Friday. Somehow I had the feeling that he has kids since he is on holiday during the one week there are school holidays. I was right as he wrote to me he is on holiday with his son. He wrote that he will contact me at the week-end.
I am keen to meet him since I am curious to find out what kind of person he is. On the picture he looks quite good, but I noticed that his e-mail writing is not terribly good and I wonder what kind of education he has. Although he is interested in sports he seems to like to go to the theatre.
I am quite glad that at least he is writing and my mind is finally not so much on H anymore. I find it quite exciting to write to a stranger althought sometimes there is quite a big difference between the person you think he is and the person you meet.
I forgot to mention that I saw a good play on Monday evening.
I intended to go to the monthly meeting of a club yesterday but didn't feel like it in the end. I also wanted to see another play tonight but found out that it was a modern production. I just cannot get used to classic plays being set in modern times. So I didn't go.
Today was a cold but beautiful day and I went for a nice walk in the sun. Since there was no wind it didn't feel cold at all. Afterwards I met a GF in a restaurant and we chatted for hours.
Spring is in the air and I already saw the first flowers popping up in my garden.
