Wow {{{Tawnya}} I feel like I came off a little flippant.
I'm so proud of you though - it's hard to face that, admit it, and go forward. Especially if you still love your hub!
You know you've reached a good place when you are able to look at the demons that control your spouse, and realize if they don't have resolution or healing, it's no good.
I look at how Pearl is handling her situation - she is angry and offended, not all weepy and whiny. That's how I want to be should the situation occur. I want to expect REAL change - not some half-hearted effort to protect yourself.
