Sorry Cinders, I'm still worried. Have you in fact ever called him in the evening without warning? Look, a guy this interested who is free from other entanglements would generally be calling you all the time, and would have found a way to meet up with you at the various opportunities that haven't quite worked out for some odd reason...
Oldtimer, I understand your concern, but to be honest I have not thought of any of this... Last night he was at home, he helped out at the bakery in preparation of this weekend, as his sister is going on holidays and he'll be taking over the weekend shift till Monday. The rest of the day he works as a self employed builder and handyman. I haven't had any reason to be suspicious. The reason he doesn't call me on the phone is that I seem to make him shy off...with him I feel a confident woman....whereas with H I am constantly wondering if I'm good enough.
Of course you may be right and he may be in a R with someone else...I'll ask him. But I truly feel this guy is honest and is treading carefully so that he won't waste his chance at this...
Thanks though, for opening my eyes to other possible motives ...
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
