The road ahead leads to happiness #6

[Rob1231]

I'm still reading the book and the first chapter has stopped me in my tracks a little cos it says something like if your W is a b***ch shes not likely to change. (Well I think I already had that figured) anyway I'll read on.

Getting serious for a sec here...

At the start of my own sitch, and I think a lot of others, part (not all!) of the problem was that my W had gone through some personal growth and I had not "kept up". Her conclusion? Rob will never change. Obviously, that was not true - I changed and grew like crazy once I had that kick-in-the-pants bomb to get me started.

Change is tough, and human nature is to settle into comfort zones and avoid it. However, don't jump to the same judgmental conclusion about your W (She'll never change) as my W did about me. We ALL are capable of change, if we can find the right combination of the external motivation and the internal will to do it.

After all, how much have YOU changed on this journey?