thanks you guys. i actually am in a good place. i still have my moments where i get frustrated with the situation and want to try and talk my W into reconciling....but i know that if it's gonna happen, it's gonna be small steps. we are taking slow steps....right now, we are just reestablishing our friendship (whether she realizes it or not..) I decided a long time ago, i couldn't lose her as a friend. that was the worst possible scenario. if i can't have her as a W, then friend will do it.
at the same time....i won't file come June. that's on her to do that. I still wonder what her thoughts are sometimes.....but again, that's normal.
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
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