Quote: we talked about forgiveness. About how to ensure that this won't happen again (not entirely satisfying...).
what was unsatisfying about it?
I know myself I've tried to "get" h to assure me that this wont happen again...asked "how can we keep this from happening again" the first response I got was..."it wont"...that wasn't "good enough" for me...so I re-stated it...what can I or you or we do to ensure that it wont happen...h's response was "well if your doing something I don't like I'll speak up"..ok so thus far h has not "spoken up" (unless of course I'm complaining about him) so I suppose I should just take his word that he will speak up..
what were you looking for from h? what did you get from h?
and btw...yes you are one lucky lady!! and your h is one lucky guy..but he already knows it!
