The 1K I spent on a PI has (so far) come back to me 50 fold.
She knows I have SOMETHING on her, but she is not sure exactly what. The fact that she is so worried about it means that she must have been doing some pretty bad stuff that she doesn't want made public.
Good luck.
Yeah I've already spent 1.5k to get the evidence I required to hold up a fault ground for adultery. This was primarily to deflect all the false abuse crap she's been claiming in order to "get out" of the marriage.
She has been hysterical, and I think she even believes herself she's gotten so paranoid and crazy about it. She accused me of trying to "drown her" one time, and I asked what she was talking about and she said "You don't remember? You yelled at me when I was in the bathtub one time!"
She's trying to be the victim because she knows how guilty she feels, but really she needs to get over that. If she's given up on the relationship, the reasons don't matter. She needs to move on, quit trying to justify her leaving, and let me have meaningful involvement in raising our daughter. Running around screaming "ABUSE!" everywhere just creates a situation where you can't do anything productive.
I'd just rather we go ahead and be done with it.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
