Well, I took GymWoman out for Valentine's Day, and ran into STBXW's good friend and her husband. She had had more than a few cocktails and came over to our table to say hello. She immediately told GymWoman that she was STBX's good friend, but I was the good guy here and that although she was STBX's friend "what goes around, comes around". Smarmylawyerbossslimebagscummyparamour has asked this woman on a number of ocassions to go out to dinner with him and STBX. Her husband has refused every time, saying he couldn't possibly do that. Her husband sent over a couple of drinks, and all is well! STBX continues to be super-overcontrolling of the kids, making D16 cry at every turn. Nice job, Joan Crawford!