been following your sitch, just not posting thoughts...but i had to jump in on this one...first of all, isn't amazing how we can be in tune with other peoples sitches but not with our own??? LOL
ok - in my opinion, i would say h has a lot on his mind. this going back to school business has got to be nerve racking at this age (not that he is old or anything LOL) - i would say he is doing what any man under alot of different stressful things is doing, reverting to his cave
remember, lots of things going on in his life right now - school, making a marriage work, etc etc
your doing great, and you continue to be an inspiration for me