Cinders,
I too know how nice it feels for someone to take an interest. In my case it happened waaaaaaaaay to soon after H left and I made it perfectly clear from the outset that I wanted my H back. However like you I did find myself wondering what it would be like to have one night stand (and believe me this is TOTALLY not me!). Like you I'm glad I didn't but interestingly know I feel ready to date those men who have previously been quite happy to flirt have fled into the distance

Think I need to go on a flirting course (yes they do exist)


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15