Cinders, I too know how nice it feels for someone to take an interest. In my case it happened waaaaaaaaay to soon after H left and I made it perfectly clear from the outset that I wanted my H back. However like you I did find myself wondering what it would be like to have one night stand (and believe me this is TOTALLY not me!). Like you I'm glad I didn't but interestingly know I feel ready to date those men who have previously been quite happy to flirt have fled into the distance
Think I need to go on a flirting course (yes they do exist)
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15