Hi There Everyone,

Still waiting for my copy of DB to turn up, pretty sure it'll be here soon, but a quick question in the meantime as to how people think I should behave in a certain situation.

Take this morning as a prime example whereby the wife is off to work and then going straight to her mothers for the weekend, she doesn't drive and was going to get the bus to work laiden down with her handbag, a sports bag for her clothes and another sports bag with makeup, hair straighteners, etc.

In this or a similar situation what should I do for the best?
1. Leave her to struggle on the bus with her bags in the hope that things like this will make her realise what she's letting herself in for (i.e. no car or lifts to work)and hope she'll see what she's possibly taken for granted previously
2. Offer her a lift to work as this may make her see that I'm not such a bad bloke after all.

In the past if this situation had arose, and I was able to, I would never see her struggle like this and would always have given her a lift.

I was in a dilema this morning as to what I should do for the best, and although she did leave the house to go and get the bus I phoned her before she'd even got to the end of the road and she came back when I offered her a lift.

In this situation yeah I want to give her a lift cos I hate to think of her struggling and having difficulties but should I?