H has officially filed. Please help me!!!!!

[MomInPain]

I think next time he insists on talking to me before I've
had a chance to talk to an A I'll have to really lay it on the line for him.

"If our marriage ends this way -- with you refusing to work whatsoever on our marriage and our issues -- then I have absolutely ZERO INTEREST in being your friend once we're divorced. I'll be civil, and courteous, and we'll work together as good co-parents for the sake of the kids, but I have NO interest in being your friend, much less your BEST friend."
****By Puppy in another thread***

Now if only I could just memorize it. lol

Well I'll be away for a while. I'm just not feeling the support I see so many others receive here. I'll read my DR again, and continue to detach.

Thank you to everyone who did chime in and offer support. I wish you all the best in your sitch's. For now, I've just gotta give it all over to God and take care of me and my kiddo's. H is either going to come around or not.

Either way, we'll be alright.