Silver, I would NOT meet with him alone. What would it do for you? Something more than showing him you're serious about maintaining your boundaries? As to how to respond to him, not sure if I would just say no or explain OW=NC. Probably my own sitch is clouding my judgment on this so I'll leave that up to you.
But speaking of my sitch, apparently being strong does work (even if you no longer want it to!) so be strong!
WIT - please do let us know what's going on with you! We miss you!
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
