I always attributed that part to the EA and the fact that the OM was applying pressure for her to leave the kids and come to Germany with him. I even saw an e-mail he wrote her last Oct that basically told her that her kids were practically grown and they had their own life now (Our youngest is 12!)
Any man that would suggest this to a woman is nothing but a low life scum bag. For that matter, any man or woman that is drawn to a married person is lacking honor.
My kids and I took a fun 3 week driving vacation through your native state of Utah last summer. It was hot, but we really liked the scenery. A funny thing the X told the kids on the phone was to find something red on the trip - little did she know that most of the rocks and dirt in southern Utah were red. It was an inside joke between the kids and I. I even mention finding red in this video
