Shine like the star you are!

[sage]

1) I think the "old Sage" might have been plagued by thoughts of him making female "friends" at school....

Ahem -- even the "new sage" felt some pangs at hearing about FF. BUT, I didn't get sarcastic or controlling or ask a thousand questions or.... I listened and asked about her a bit (not in a bad way) and ....reaffirmed my thought process that I need to focus on the stuff I can control -- me!

2) Moot point because H wouldn't have shared this with the "old Sage" for fear of wakening her insecurities

Gonna say that this is MOST definitely true.

3) The "old Sage" would very likely NOT be so accommodating and supportive of H's law school efforts so he wouldn't have had anything to brag about!

And THIS is COMPLETELY true.

It's amazing how letting go of my sense of "control" over h has been liberating for both of us.

You da Queen!!!

Hey, why not? Queen for at least a day!

Sage