However, if I were the one having the affair, and I were exposed, and humiliated, I would never go back to the marriage.
With the greatest of respect sgctxok, unless you were in this position I don't think you really KNOW what you would do. One of the big things you see on these boards is people saying that they had always said if their S cheated they would be gone.....and yet when it happened they have arrived here wanting to save the M. Until it happens one never knows.
Absolutely true.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001