Any insight into why he is suddenly pushing for all of this time? I want to be able to let go and have a working relationship with him. Do you think if I keep gently turning him down for requests to spend time he will eventually stop? Or do you think he will just feel rejected and resort to his usual mind games?
He is either re-thinking the situation, or thinking this separate, but still together might work for awhile.
Without knowing H, it's hard to know how he'll handle the eventual detachment. I say let the MoFo experience a little rejection! (Talk about spiteful! Sorry, not a good influence...)
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
