Definately read the "Love Must Be Tough" by James Dobson. Great book.
So, what exactly was that woman saying that your H was getting twisted by the church...If anything, they should be encouraging him to work on his M.
I will read more in the morning. Got a fussy baby.
Hang in there sweety!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!