Ever Suffering,

Sorry to hear that your situation is taking such a toll on you.

It sounds to me like you dismiss something quite significant as "nothing serious." All you can really do is focus on yourself and get your head in order.

Do you think seeing a counselor on your own would help? It may help you work through some of the issues you're going through.

My W isn't exactly receptive to MC so I've been going on my own. The basic thing I focus on when there is how to not be so depressed all the time. Only went once so far but it was nice to get a professional's opinion on the matter.

Keep your chin up and know that you can get through this.


Together since Feb. 2003
Maried since July 2007
Bomb occured early Dec. 2008
She's approved for a lease mid Feb. 2009
(deciding on if to take it or not)