this ...... H was aware of it, and knew it was yesterday, and i had put it off so long, he assured me we would do it together. even trying to sedate me some thru it didnt work. its an awful one......
The Bas**rd!!
Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome
...I have to say, even if he D'd her the next day, he should have been there. And that's about all I'm going to say about that.
Yes!!! Thank you, Jeff, for once again showing that not all men are insensitive SOB's!!! And I don't care if they were already D'd!! If he knew she was alone and how excruciating it would be for her to go through it, he still should have been there!!
I know your struggle with D16, BG. My S17 had anger at me for still wanting my M after what H has done. We've had long talks, and our relationship is better, but he is still pushing limits too much and making some bad decisions. I am really hoping that the group therapy we hope to start for him (he has his first evaluation on Monday) will help.
{{{{{BG}}}}}}
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd