Quoting Trying24now:
That struck home with me because NOW that I have my H trying so hard to work his way back to our M, I have to admit to myself that I have been stuck in the endless search for any negatives or pitfalls that might present themselves to the point that I was continuing to over look all the positives he was doing.

Thank you for helping me to step back and make myself account for THE GOOD my H is doing as I continue to WATCH for the backslides.
T2




Hey T2,

Glad to see you over here in Piecing! I've been lurking on your thread (here and in Newcomers, right?).

I'm delighted that you've found positives in my er, areas of growth.... (don't want to call them negatives!). I'm sure we'll help each other out on this bumpy path!

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.