You are not giving up, but you are reclaiming your dignity. In order to save your marriage, you need to reclaim yourself, first. Ultimately, you need to love YOU before you can love someone else. Can you honestly look in the mirror and feel good about the fact that your wife and you live under the same roof and she is serially cheating on you?? If so, then no offense, but YOU need IC before you can even think about MC. As a matter of fact, I would still recommend IC for you, anyway.
Blessings, grace, and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7