Thanks for posting last night. I'm sorry you're so down right now. Our H's are similar - having a hard time growing up, mad at the world, everything is someone else's fault.
It's hard being a real man, some never make it. They say that girls mature faster than boys - as an educator I see evidence of this every day.
You're right about the disrespect. Have you read "Love Must Be Tough"? There are some insightful points about the line of respect that both partners must be aware of.
I feel that taking the ring on and off is more about his confusion rather than showing you something. I also take my ring on, off trying to figure things out. I'm not really thinking about whether someone notices or not. Although one time a man did make a pass at me at the grocery store while he was looking at my finger to make sure. I raced home and put the ring back on!
I know it's easier said than done but you need to up the GAL activities and get busy, busy, busy.
I'll check back later. Take care.
Last edited by Silver Fox; 02/20/0902:15 AM.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
