I have been following your posts for a little while, long before I decided to come over to piecing. I wanted to thank you for inspiring me to do just that.
It was actually something you said in your other thread that helped me make the move. You said,
Quote: I can HEAR h sharing his thoughts and feelings and love with me. What scares me a bit is how hard I have to listen to hear it ... NOT because he's not saying it clearly but because of the the cobwebs and noise in my brain (the ASSumptions, expecations, rampant thoughts, etc.). I'm working, working, working on brushing those aside.
That struck home with me because NOW that I have my H trying so hard to work his way back to our M, I have to admit to myself that I have been stuck in the endless search for any negatives or pitfalls that might present themselves to the point that I was continuing to over look all the positives he was doing.
Thank you for helping me to step back and make myself account for THE GOOD my H is doing as I continue to WATCH for the backslides. T2
