I see that same coldness in my STBX
Its like they found a way to shut down and be stones
MY IC said that as long as the kids have one stable parent, they will be ok
they may have issues but who doesnt
we are the stable parents
and Im trying to hold a higher thought for my STBX eventhough I doubt we will reconcile, I hole the thought that he will progress spiritually and become closer to god and a better father and man
eventhough at this point he is a shodow of a men, it still helps me to hope for the bets for the sake of my kids
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow