Thanks friends for all your support and suggestions
all here is quiet..I continue to let go little to no interactions with H I like it this way as i feel it is helping me move on yes Cat it is a concious choice to be more in the now than the past. Steve- not sure what the co parenting sessiosn will hold for me I just hope I will continue to letgo and basically expect nothing from them except additional healing for me GM- I like that your therapist has the same experience with her H..That heelps BM- you found me! My IC has been hynotising me for the last few sessioss..to help me let go I think it helps its like NLP..she saiys it cretes a new pathway in your brain to react and process differently I will take all the brain help I can Get!! Hope you all have a peaceful evening peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow