I responded and it locked before you got it. So here it is again. By the way, everyone got locked tonight.
Glad you opened up, put it out there -you will heal. When I first separated and talked to a friend I spoke the truth also and instead a lecture I was surprised to hear sympathy and a similar story she never told anyone.
I was not physically abused by H, but I did walk on eggshells a lot. When I stopped, he just drank more, walked out more, and finally left. I decided then that is what was needed.
I'm quite tired so will stop. Just wanted to stop by and say hi, saw your post and said a little more.
