Every point you made rings true with me. Apparently, H doesn't even know yet that mediation is REQUIRED now that I've countered.
All last year we had many conversations that were not fun - usually ending up with me crying. I need to make sure that never happens again.
Now I need to figure out how to answer him - a polite no thank you, I'll let the mediator take care of it or, or what? Not sure yet.
Any advice?
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10