Thanks JD,

Every point you made rings true with me. Apparently, H doesn't even know yet that mediation is REQUIRED now that I've countered.

All last year we had many conversations that were not fun - usually ending up with me crying. I need to make sure that never happens again.

Now I need to figure out how to answer him - a polite no thank you, I'll let the mediator take care of it or, or what? Not sure yet.

Any advice?


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10