Sandi; by going shopping I meant restocking the fridge, buying groceries... and nothing else.
She hasn't apologized yet. Maybe she's been waiting for the talk? I don't know. I guess that's a bad sign.
So, the talk: I'm going to ask her about this sudden move. I have to know why. Of course I'm glad she did but this question needs to be answered. Next I intend to say that I appreciate this step but now we have to work on regaining the trust. Even though I want to be with her, get old together and have kids and grandkids I would not tolerate any more games, lies and if something like A or "I need some time alone to think about the R" would ever happen again I wouldn't fight for the M and file for D. Next step: I think that our M - it's worth fighting for but since you have invited the third person (Puppy I like your old script:-)) there is no way it can work unless he will be completely out of the picture. Then it would be time for " no more contact,change your cell phone, email and such" part.
I have to ask you about one thing; the DR book. I think she knows I have it, (she saw it on the night stand when came by the house last week). Should I mention anything. Can I read it when she's around? Of course she doesn't know, and I hope never will, about the DB forum. But the book?
