Don't we all come to this site to save our marriages?I know a lot of us here are in the same boat and a lot have spouses that are cheating.I'm no angel either.Never cheated but lied about money and bills.It does bother me that she cheated or still is.13 years of marriage is kinda hard to throw away.Don't get me wrong,if there is no hope I have to move on.But shouldn't I try rather than give up right away?