It wasn't smart because it makes you come across as controlling and manipulative, bub.
I would tell the OM's W if I were you, but that is just me.
Sorry about the job.
Honestly, I don't think she is going to change her mind at all. At this point, I am convinced that it doesn't matter what you do or don't do, she is getting a divorce. She will regret it someday, yes, I think so, but it's not gonna be anytime soon like you are wanting.
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
