BG- I want to start with just tell him. You already know what i'm thinking.

As far as the test, OMG if you people had any idea what it was and what it was like for her. As much as she is trying not to tell him about stuff cuz we don't want him hanging around cuz she's sick, I too have lived that drama, this was not something that even the Devil should have had to do alone. So Sandi you are right to be upset with her H and don't apologize for it and ST you are also right that she needs to keep some stuff to herself so he does't stay for the wrong reason.

Ok thats my soapbox for the day. Jeff, don't worry about being confused. Sometimes piecing is necessary. LOL

If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.