Que Sera, Sera - Whatever Will Be, Will Be

[lemonsnap]

Pearl and JD,
Thank you so much for your insight.
It's so helpful to hear from you both.

JD - I know I have to focus 100% right now on being simply friends with my H. I'm going to try my hardest. I've always considered us to be great friends - the challenge will be hiding all of my other feelings for him.

I'm so sorry that you are both suffering through your spouse's A's. My own infidelity - although only a one night A (not trying to make little of it, but it is different) - has done so much to hurt both of us, especially my H.

On that note, I've got a question for people.
Does anyone have any experience dealing with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder? (PTSD).

Our MC told me last night that my H has many of the symptoms and is probably suffering from this (as a result of my infidelity, NOT related to combat/natural disasters, etc.)