I'm glad things are going well for you...the statement you made to h is not weird infact it is something you can find in cards...I bought such a card...well after h's a but before seperation...it simply said..."I'm loving you loving me" I bought it just becuase...but then realized that it was actually a valentines day card...I told him about it but never gave it to him because it was a valentines card and it was dec or jan at the time...don't know where I'm going with this...other than perhaps inlight of my doing such things BEFORE the seperation...I no longer allow myself to do them now...all the nice little cards I used to buy..now I don't...all the ily's I used to say...now I don't....am I screwed? I don't know.
anyway....things really do sound like they are going well for you...it seems that when you put your fears asside and accept that most of the junk is your own (albeit a result of h's indiscretion in the past) you pull yourself up and seem to have a wonderful r with h.
