For those looking for my thread walk away husband... you have found me.
Summary is this, H left because he thought he had a right to live the way he wanted at his age. He wanted to drink as much as he wanted. He wanted to live with a spouse -not spouse and kids. He has recently started AA and IC. He has taken his ring off. He says he wants to work on the R and will put the ring back on when I join him in working on the R. He does not want to move back into the house while the kids are still living there. My stance, I have been working on the R, waiting for him to want to work on it with me, want him sober and stable. I am willing to talk about R in MC only after he has some sobriety and addressed emotional issues.
