I'm not ready yet to suck up my pride and "thank" STBX for not using the heavier-handed method first.
I'm so sorry NC. ((((NC)))))
Yes, it's better that she sent it certified rather than Sheriff, but I don't think there's any need to thank her for that!!! If it's USPS, I've done that before. You can either pick it up at your local office (it should tell you which one on the card and what hours you can pick it up) or get them to redeliver if you call. I would try to get it soon if you can; I think you'll feel better when you get that over with.
I don't think you should communicate with your W at all. How are you doing? I can guess of course...I'm really sorry. Karen
