A year or 2??!!! I was not thinking of such a long timeframe. I know when H and I separated I thought that I wanted a long s and I didn't want a quick solution but I guess I wasn't thinking that long. Ok, I guess a good reality check is needed here. Wow, a year or two. That's really long. And then I know people will be pressuring me to divorce for that long. Ok, panic attack coming on here. I guess slow is better than a rushed unstable solution but that's looong!