Well,... It looks like I now know the answer to my question. I just got home and there on my door was a nice little 3 x 5 card from the U.S. Postal Service saying they missed me for a delivery. It says it is a certified letter for which I must sign for. No need to guess what for...
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...at least she decided not to lead off with all the drama of having the Sheriff deliver it, and while the boys are with me. Although there's nothing to prevent that from still happening at some point however.
I am now thinking I need to intercept that letter carrier on their next attempt to deliver it -- as soon as I can, or else I am sure STBXW will turn it over to the Sheriff's office (I can just hear her now, "It's your fault you got publicly served in front of our sons, because you didn't accept or sign for the USPS delivery! How can you be so cruel to your own children?!")
I'm not ready yet to suck up my pride and "thank" STBX for not using the heavier-handed method first.
